Biology helped the doctors define who I was at birth:
My genitalia like the vulva and vagina tells the doctor I am a girl.
Now, as a grown-up woman, it is still by biology;
‘cos at this mature stage, I possess an added feature:
Which is my breast.
By these biological constructions, the society seeks to define my roles:
By marriage and motherhood.
Outside of these roles as a woman, I am nothing.
My purpose and self-dependence do not count.
Am I trying to say that I do not want to be married someday
Or, that I do not desire a child of own someday?
No!
But, I should not be defined by these rhetorics.
Do not judge me!
Do not rush me!
Let me define my construction and not the society!
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