Marriage

I Wrote My Wedding Vows

I see a new trend with marital vows. Couples now write their vows. People are no longer going the orthodox way. It is the Millennial’s and Gen Z’s way, and so we gotta* spice it up. We are drifting away from the “for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness, and in health,

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Should Women Find it Difficult to Embrace Shared Financial Responsibility in the Family?

I would say I have some loyal friends (smiles) who constantly read most of my writings. My co-authored publication with my friend (OLUWASEMILOORE ATERE)  which was published in the Nigerian Tribune newspaper opened the floor for questioning. A friend contacted me and he said, “we need to talk.”  Saturday came and we started our conversation

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Of What Relevance Is His Last Name on My Social Media Platforms?

In December 2016, I was one of The Platform (Nigeria)’s Young Professional Bootcamp (YBP) cohorts. During one of our sessions, a Human Resource expert said something that I held with me until date. He stated that it is unnecessary to add our families as connections on social media platforms. He went further to note that

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Let Me Define Myself

Biology helped the doctors define who I was at birth: My genitalia like the vulva and vagina tells the doctor I am a girl. Now, as a grown-up woman, it is still by biology; ‘cos at this mature stage, I possess an added feature: Which is my breast. By these biological constructions, the society seeks

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Megan and Harry Said Their Vows Yesterday; How Sacred Are These Vows?

https://youtu.be/_4dqIUYo2_4 I have always wanted to write on the sacredness of marriage vows, watching the royal wedding vows exchange between Megan and Harry reminds me that these words are not just wordy vows but proclamations to be committed till death. Harry said his vows first, and his vows go thus, “I Harry, take you, Meghan,

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